A 26-year-old from the mountains of Cebu gave me three words.
I didn't understand them at first.
Kugi.
Paningkamot.
Pag-ampo.
So I asked Melvin what they meant.
Perseverance.
Hard work.
Prayer.
Melvin is 26, running a small cassava business from a two-room boarding house in Corazon, Catmon.
When I asked him what these words meant to him, he didn't give me a long explanation.
He simply said:
"I always give my best."
"Perseverance and hard work."
"And the prayer for us to be guided."
Maybe that's what stayed with me.
Not a formula for success.
Just three words he carries with him.
Almost three years into living in the Philippines, I'm still finding that the best stories don't always begin with an answer.
Sometimes, they begin with a word.
Still Learning.
Still Exploring.
One story at a time.
Daghang salamat, Melvin🙏
I went into that boarding house expecting to talk about a small business — cassava, a two-room space, a young man building something out of very little. I left with three words instead.
I didn't ask Melvin to explain himself. He just did, in the plainest way he had. No long story. No performance. Kugi. Paningkamot. Pag-ampo. Three words he said the way someone recites something they've said to themselves many times before, quietly, not for an audience.
I keep thinking about how little he needed to say it. I've met people who take more than ten minutes to explain what they believe in while in Japan. Melvin took three words.
What stayed with me wasn't a formula for success — just three words a 26-year-old in the mountains of Catmon carries with him, words I'm choosing to leave as they are.
| Date | July 19, 2026 |
|---|---|
| Location | Corazon, Catmon, Cebu |
| Event Type | Personal Interview / Small Business Visit |
| Access Method | Invited by a local contact (Melvin) |
| Food Featured | None |
| Cost to Attend | Free (by arrangement) |
| Rarity | 🟨🟨🟨⬜⬜ — A private philosophy rarely put into words |
| Bayanihan Index | 🟨⬜⬜⬜⬜ — A quiet, one-on-one exchange |
Whether these three words are simply Melvin's own, or something carried by more people in these mountains than I've met so far, is still something I don't know.